Valentine’s Day Survival Tips for Long-Distance Couples
Long-distance relationships can be challenging, but they show how strong Love can be. As Karen Salman Sohn says, “Love is stronger than distance. Stronger than time. Stronger than anything that tries to keep people apart.” While miles may separate you and your partner, especially on Valentine’s Day when the world seems to revolve around in-person celebrations, Love has the strength to bridge that gap. It may be tough not to have your loved one by your side, to miss their touch or presence, but Love finds a way. Love endures, thrives, and grows even when distance tries to come between you. As Valentine’s Day is nearby, it’s important to celebrate that unbreakable bond, no matter where you are in the world. Here’s how you can make this Valentine’s Day memorable, despite the distance.
5 Tips to help you navigate a long-distance relationship:
1. Effective Communication:
When you are apart, the sole thing linking you and your partner is your ability to connect to each other and that too through that technology! So keep your lines of communication clear and make sure that line does not become rusty. A call made from the heart, or a romantic text message will definitely brighten your partner up and build great vibes. Strong relationships are built on deep, meaningful conversations. Besides, do not forget to keep your independence, and find the right balance.
Following are some tips for improving interactions:
• Put first to open and sincere conversations.
• Set a recurring cadence, even if that is as simple as a short phone call or more entertaining video chat
2. Keep Your Time Together “Normal”
LDRs can put a lot of pressure on couples to make the most of their limited time together. Such pressure to disconnect can lead to stress and create a series of stressful experiences as a part of too much planning and not enough free time. So, just do what you would normally do if you lived in the same city — like eat at the same time, watch a movie or even just be there and talk. This way, you have some never-ending virtual date ideas — simply think about what you both like, and your ideas will start rolling in! This gives more of a chance to connect while avoiding a schedule so full you’ll burn yourselves out, which keeps your relationship a little more “normal”. We are aware that it sounds a little cheesy, but come on, who does not enjoy romance!?
3. Plan your Next Visit.
Being apart from your partner is always challenging. However, there’s something about anticipating the next meeting that warms the heart. It is tough sometimes, but try to determine when you’ll see each other next. Doing so allows you to start a countdown and look forward to the day as it approaches without losing excitement.
4. Never Assume
Effective communication is important in a long-distance relationship. But it also brings challenges. A message can be misinterpreted leading to misunderstandings. So, it is important to understand the message without guessing. Because your partner can’t read your mind when you try to convey a message, make it as simple and accurate as possible. For instance, do not make plans when these aren’t definite as they might be made. There is also nothing wrong in asking your partner for clarification if something is not clear to you. This is more of a common-sense issue, but one text can influence so many! So always verify the arrangements and never assume anything!
5. Send Each Other Gifts.
On this long-distance Valentine’s Day, it would be nice to send heartfelt gifts or even letters to your partner, as those will convey true feelings and emotions towards them. It makes the relationship stronger by reminding them of one’s love and devotion. Let’s prove how much they are worth and what significance they have in our lives! To make it a tad bit more special, make sure to put together a care package. Care packages can contain simple but special things such as pictures, gift cards, certificates for self-care gifts such as a day at the spa, and so on. When creating such gifts, pay attention to the interests and preferences of your partner to impress them and show that they really matter to you.
Don’t Do These Things on Valentine’s Day
1. Do not Forget the Date: As it is your loved one’s special day, it’s important to keep track of it. Valentine’s Day is February 14th! Consider putting on a reminder for those who tend to forget often.
2. Do not Stress: Feeling pressure and anxiety about what the other person will think about you is quite common. Just take some time off and relax regarding your feelings for your Valentine.
3. Do not Repeat: Doing the same things as last year shouldn’t be on your to-do list for that day; instead, use Valentine’s Day to create a memory that is different for your partner.
Tips for Long-Distance Couples on Valentine’s Day FAQ
What makes the romance live in a long-distance relationship?
One of the most important aspects of a relationship is talking to each other regularly. Set a regular schedule for video calls, thoughtfully message each other, and take turns sending and receiving gifts.
What are some gifts for a long-distance Valentine’s Day?
You can send a handcrafted necklace, a nicely written letter, or a container filled with some of their preferred items. You can also try some experiences, such as virtual concert tickets, cooking classes, etc.
How can people ensure they aren’t bored on the 14th of February?
Go out with your family or friends, do something you love, or consider giving back to the community. Valentine’s Day is just another day, and love can be spread every day.
